Friday Afternoon Fun

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Whether you are a writer or not, we are all walking stories. Are you allowing God to write on your heart?

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“You’re healed!”


Hello my blog friends. I would be remiss if I did not share this heart-touching story of the hope. From Stage IV terminal cancer (less than a year ago) to full recovery, Richard Hayes, CEO of Digital Lightbridge, daily redefines humility. Did I mention I have the honor and privilege of serving alongside him at DLB?

Friends, God has blessed my socks off over the last year. Do you believe He is still in the business of working miracles? I would love to hear about it. Do you have your own miracle to share? Let’s hear it!

As Rich would say, “Press On!” Thank you for stopping by!

Tristine Barry

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Hey friends,
I’m sorry that I haven’t shared on this blog in over a year. Wow, a lot has happened and most significantly regarding my health, I now have an update to share. After finally reaching the six month follow-up schedule with my oncologists, I had a PET-CT scan in May 2014 that revealed some troublesome results. My doctor and the imaging technicians identified abnormal lymph nodes in my neck. They’d been watching them for a few months and this scan delivered the findings. We discussed potential surgical options and perhaps radiation treatment. We decided to wait a few months and check them again and determine the extent of the reoccurrence. On September 10, 2014, I had another whole body, PET-CT and on September 12th I met with my oncologist. Their office was very busy for a late Friday afternoon. I waited in the lobby for almost an hour, which felt like a…

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Life: Not What I Expected


Again I welcome the poignant writing if Jamy Whitaker. God is SO grand! When you follow Christ, navigating through life’s unexpected turns gives new perspective and meaning. I believe you will be encouraged as you digest Jamie’s words.

Thank you all for your continued support of Free To Fly Now.

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While I was growing up I had formed in my head what my life was going to look like. I had everything planned out to create the ultimate picture.

I would graduate from college and get married. We would enjoy our time as newlyweds before having two children. The four of us would live in a quaint house with the white picket fence. Ah, I could sit back and just enjoy my family. It was picture perfect.

However, in my picture I did not account for reality…

This is a portion of an article that I have featured on Encouragement Café  and Crosswalk today. I would love for you to read and then come back and share your thoughts in the comment section.

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Unconditional Love of Man’s Best friend


So very grateful to have found this truly amazing video story. A must see for sure. You will for sure need tissues for this happy story.

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There aren’t many words to describe this video other than the fact that tissues will be needed as you watch this heartwrming video. It will touch your soul.

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Thank You Everyone-To The Readers

By Tristine Barry

Hello to all of you that have liked, shared, commented, and followed Free To Fly Now. I will do my best but in my heart there truly are not enough words to describe what you all mean to me. So, without further ado, here goes:


I will not profess to say that these are the only words. Without you there is no purpose. Without my fellow bloggers I cannot share with the world other viewpoints and wisdom. God truly opens a new door when one closes. After closing the door on a.once thriving and published online support community (10 years running), The Lord paved the way for us to come together here. This journey has come with great cost but also with great benefit. It has been amazing going from “Find The Light” to “Free To Fly Now”. The greatest lesson learned is when I/we listen to that still, small voice there is purpose. There is peace. There is grace and there is mercy. Having to close a door isn’t so disappointing because when we know that we are in God’s perfect and pleasing will, Romans 12:2b He always has larger and grander plans than we can conceive.

I want to give a special shout out to Proverbs Online Bible Studies. If it wasn’t for them encouraging me to join their “Blog Hop” in my very first study (Let.It.Go by the talented Karen Ehman) Free To Fly Now wouldn’t be what it is today. I would be remiss if I didn’t commend Lysa Terkeurst and her highly beneficial COMPEL TRAINING online writing community. If you are interested in either one of these worthy communities I highly encourage you to take a good look. Have questions? Please leave a comment. Your comments are cherished and welcomed. Stay tuned for blog enhancements and information on the next Bible study by Lysa Terkeurst, “The Best Yes, Making Wise Decisions In The Midst Of Endless Demands” It is a page-turner!

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My Favorite Bible Verses – Day 17 {FREE PRINTABLE}

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We must become less if He is to become greater!  My one word this year and 2013 was less  - less of me, more of Him! (Click the 2013 to see that blog). Have I accomplished that – not yet!  I’m still working on me and spending more time with Him and it could be that 2015 will not give me a new word.  I’m working on becoming less inside and outside, but so far the outside has not changed like I had hoped this year.  He’s not finished with me, and I don’t want Him to be.  I am eating healthier, and less and my cholesterol is now normal so small steps.  

You Lord, not me!

May my life reflect MORE of Him and less of me!

So how about you?  Are you wanting to become less and He more?  I would love to hear your comments below.

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Gleanings From Rick Warren-”What On Earth Am I Here For?” Day 3

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Jehovah Shalom = “I am the God of Peace”

“I am leaving you with a gift – peace of mind and heart! And the peace I give isn’t fragile like the peace the world gives. So don’t be troubled or afraid.”John 14:27 (LB)


“I have learned to be satisfied with the things I have and with everything that happens. I know how to live when I am poor, and I know how to live when I have plenty. I have learned the secret of being happy at anytime in everything that happens … I can do all things through Christ, because He gives me strength.”Phil 4: 11-13 (NCV)


“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”

“You, Lord, give true peace to those who depend on You because they trust You.”Isa. 26:3 (NCV)

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths.”Pr. 3:5-6 (NIV)

“Don’t worry about anything; instead pray about everything; tell God your needs and don’t forget to thank Him for His answers. If you do this, you will experience God’s peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand.”Phil. 4:6-7 (LB)


“If a person’s thinking is controlled by his sinful self, then there is death. But if his thinking is controlled by the Spirit, then there is life and peace.”Rom. 8:6 (ICB)

“Those who love your teaching will find true peace, and nothing will defeat them.”Ps. 119:165 (NCV)

“Since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us.”Rom. 5:1


I hope that you enjoyed reading this passage from this incredible book, “What On Earth Am I Hear For?” I find it rather comforting to know that God has a solution for humanity in this fallen world. Jesus-God in the flesh-knows our pain. He has walked before us and suffered more on his 33 years on Earth more than any other human being. He longs for you to call on Him right now, in your life. After all He did die an unspeakable death for Himself. No. He died for you. He died for me. He wants us to have joy and peace to the fullest-THIS surpasses human understanding. I know because at this point I have this peace even in the worst of circumstances. Won’t you consider God’s answer to the source of your tension? Read the above verses aloud on a regular basis if you wish to experience peace. You will be amazed at the results. This won’t happen overnight but like anything, practice makes perfect peace. As always your comments are welcome.







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Finding Jesus

By Tristine Barry

I first just wish to say hello to all of my blog friends. I have missed you. I am so grateful for you and I thank you so much for being here. As always I value and welcome your comments. I am feeling quite compelled to share what is on my heart.

As a believer in Christ I cannot help but think of how our God saves when we truly seek Him. As the wonderful Dr. Charles Stanley says-He is not our bellhop or a magic genie who is there to fulfill only our wishes.  He is not someone that we just call on when we need help. If we think about our human relationships how would it work if , let’s say you only called your parents when you needed something or your husband or wife when you needed something?  Again I am paraphrasing from a sermon from Dr. Stanley. With that being said when we find Jesus and long to live for Him He is ever present.  The Almighty God of the universe longs to have a relationship with you. Yes You! This can be hard to grasp but I have been following the Lord for almost 5 years and I personally know it to be true. My life has changed drastically for the better since I finally invited Jesus into my life. I was paying attention to Him-the longing of my heart. I had a very deep emptiness in my heart, a hole in my soul if you will. Can you relate to that? For the majority of my life I was seeking escape from pain-emotional, physical, and spiritual. I was trying to feed this emptiness in my soul with  addictive substances, overworking, and empty relationships. We were born to thrive with God.

Some of my wonderful blog friends know that I am slowly coming back from my Sabbatical. I cannot help myself but share how the Almighty God  came to save the whole world from eternal doom, death , and destruction. However we must choose Jesus. He is a gentleman and does not force anything upon us.

It is my prayer that you have chosen Jesus but if not please think about choosing God as your Savior. If your life hasn’t been working for you without Jesus won’t you consider it? He is calling you. He loves you. Won’t you choose to let Him into your longing heart?

John 3:16 (NIV)
16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

Accepting Jesus As Your Savior

So how can you know God?
It all starts with accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Jesus Christ provides a relationship with the Father and eternal life through His death on the cross and resurrection (Rom. 5:10).

Romans 10:9 promises, “If you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” If you have not yet begun your personal relationship with God, understand that the One who created you loves you no matter who you are or what you’ve done. He wants you to experience the profound depth of His care.

Therefore, tell God that you are willing to trust Him for salvation. You can tell Him in your own words or use this simple prayer:

Lord Jesus, I ask You to forgive my sins and save me from eternal separation from God. By faith, I accept Your work and death on the cross as sufficient payment for my sins. Thank You for providing the way for me to know You and to have a relationship with my heavenly Father. Through faith in You, I have eternal life. Thank You also for hearing my prayers and loving me unconditionally. Please give me the strength, wisdom, and determination to walk in the center of Your will. In Jesus’ name, amen.

The above lovingly borrowed from Dr. Charles Stanley and In Touch Ministries

Thank you for taking stopping by. As always your comments are encouraged and welcome.

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We were made to THRIVE!

By Tristine Barry

Hello Friends. It is great to get back to the blog for the new year. A little late, but hey, better late than never, right? I hope everyone had a great holiday and is ready for a new year.

I have added a new page to Free to Fly Now called, “Tribute to Worship Arts”. If you get duplicate emails of the same content I do apologize. I am learning. New year, new fun and new challenges~ I pray that you are blessed as you read my new page called, “Tribute to Worship Arts”.

I want to share that  at the early age of Middle School I started playing the flute. I accelerated with private instruction and when I began High School I shot right to the top of the three “best” in the band. They called it “First Chair”, “Second Chair”, “Third Chair”, and so on and so on. Each instrument or “set of instruments” had this order. I began at second chair, right behind an amazing flautist who was a year above me and held the esteemed, “First Chair” until she graduated. Why do I share this story? By thriving in those times playing in two different types of bands, competing and always flourishing, practicing, and learning, my love of music-now-is truly helping me to “Thrive” as an adult who loves Christian Worship music. I love all kinds and I have all kinds. Would you like to know why? Music moves. Music moves. Music can change a mood in an instant. Music can teach, it can lead, it can love and it can share; it is all in how it is presented and used, imo. I am here to share how I personally use music to strengthen, uplift, and love-but above all-to Worship our True God.

Worship Arts is all about God and so am I! I love Jesus. He saved me years ago and now I am passionately a fiend of worship arts. Now, I cannot sing and I don’t dance very well but I will say this. When I am singing to Jesus these beautiful words that I hear, nothing else seems to matter. I get raptured into Him and nothing else matters. Nothing. In this year of 2014, I have a “theme” for me, and hopefully for you. I am taking the Made to Crave Study with Proverbs 31 Online Bible Studies. I am digging deeper, asking God to pull my roots out so I may soar like an eagle and thrive. After all, that is why Jesus died for me-and for you. He loves us that much. I am working on craving God more than anything and the more I listen to His anointed through music, the stronger I get.

In honor of the new year and our new theme, “Thrive” for this year, I am going to share one of my favorites so far from the just released “Thrive” album by the Casting Crowns.

Casting Crowns "THRIVE"
Casting Crowns “THRIVE”

I am so very excited about this because this is more than just a new CD. They are putting out a challenge for all of us, any of us, who want to participate with them. I know I am looking into it and I hope you will join me. Take the THRIVE challenge with me-wouldn’t you like to thrive this year? After all, we were made to thrive. I am so excited to begin this new journey.

Lord, I thank You for this group of Artists sharing their gifts. I pray this song touches many but I will be thrilled with one person. I pray we will take the challenge to thrive in this world with Jesus. This song has touched me deeply and has turned on light bulbs in my soul that I weren’t sure were there. I thank you for Your love. I thank You for second chances. Amen

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Merry Christmas!

Hey guys. I just wanted to wish all of you a Merry Christmas. I am looking forward to a very exciting upcoming new year. I look forward to sharing and hearing from you.

In the meantime, do you have a favorite “gift”? How do you choose the gifts you may give? It is food for thought as I ponder the true meaning of Christmas.


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